Richard’s Note: The following article is from Teresa Lim, a mother and freelance project coordinator from the Philippines who I recently connected with and who is interested in getting investors or partners for her medical tourism business. Normally, I write all of the posts here, but have on occasion had guest writers submit content to the blog. And while I normally stay away from discussing cosmetic surgery in my blog, nevertheless, I am posting this here. I have not changed one word, except where it will align with English grammar and punctuation.
Monday morning, news about the death of a 29 year old single mother was a social media trending. Reasons? Because she died while undergoing liposuction, bust and butt augmentation….WHAT??? Wait a minute, did I read it right? Yes, checked and counter-checked the news, she really underwent three cosmetic surgeries all at the same time from 5:00 pm Saturday to 2:40 am Sunday. What a dauntless woman. Curiosity made me search for more info about this daredevil act. I found out that she was a regular to this clinic. She had nose lift, face contour, several botox injections and derma lightening procedures. Such audacity made me wonder, A few months ago my dentist advice me for immediate tooth extraction due to threats of excruciating pain and halitosis. It took me almost 3 months to comply. If not for the excruciating pain I would never compel. Halitosis? Never mind. For me tooth extraction is” Calvary” little did I know that for health and beauty conscious women invasive cosmetic surgery is “Glory”. I guess it’s because pain threshold is an individual personal perception of sufferance.
Reading through comments section netizens blame the woman for being so vain and relying much on doctors sculptural skills than that of God”s unique work of art. Hey, the girl did not use people’s money for the her cosmetic surgery so forget the blame and leave her alone. She’s dead remember? Somehow she prefers to die beautiful. Some say its medical malpractice, cosmetic procedures must be done gradually not simultaneously. My spinning mind asks, if she happens to survive, how will she able to live and adjust? After liposuction, bust and butt augmentation how can she rest or sleep? Supine, prone, left lateral and right lateral positions all impossible…Is that why she had to die?
Vanity rhymes well with insanity. Men and women who had cosmetic enhancement surgeries and still longs for more needs to seek help from a doctor on psychiatry than a doctor on aesthetic and dermatology. Having movement limitations like stooping, jumping and swimming for fear of silicone falling is no longer called free living. Gauging more on fixing the brain first before the outside appearance should be a prerequisite.
In local beauty pageants we often hear this three words from judges and presenters Grace, Beauty and Brain. This means that being graceful and intelligent or brainy manifest your beauty. I guess now ,due to global changes, the new trend is Bravery, Courage, and Endurance. You need to be brave and courageous for enhancement surgery and endure this procedure one after another. It should be called enduring beauty or injuring beauty your choice of words, spelling and meaning.
Despite of all this, cosmetic surgery is still commendable. It has its flaws …yes but it can turn a dude into a girl. That’s magic. No matter what the consequences are, enhancement clinics are on the rise. People tend to patronize it more than the ordinary beauty salons. Soon make up kits will be obsolete. As simpletons says, “Die today, Die tomorrow the same die, so better get cosmetic surgery at least you die pretty.”